
Although no one except God Himself can specifically tell you why He might be allowing suffering in your life, here are six reasons we can find in the Bible as to why He allowed suffering within the lives of others. By reading the verses listed after each reason, you might be able to see greater purpose in your own pain.
Here we find God treating us as His children and bringing in hard times with a forward look to what those hard times will produce in our lives not unlike we do with our own children.
There is a real progression given in this set of verses as our sufferings move us through the stages of perseverance, character, and confidence. This development of confidence (i.e. "with God to lean on ,we can handle more than we thought we could") can be sensed in those people who have this key piece of personal substance as opposed to those who fall apart at the slightest inconvenience.
God gave the Apostle Paul no relief from his suffering as a way of preventing additional sin (i.e. in this case pride). Due to the fact that the sin is prevented, it is impossible to know how many times this purpose for suffering has been used to prevent something worse from happening.
The book of Job demonstrates for us how God truly needs no other purpose than that of demonstrating His power to us. As we watch Him work out His plan, we are amazed at His wisdom and creativity and get to know Him better.
Here the suffering is not primarily for our benefit but so that we might later be able to relate to and help another.
When we suffer, we can identify more closely with His sufferings.
This understanding of His own sufferings creates a greater intimacy
between Christ and us not unlike the intimacy of two human friends
who have been through similar experiences. (also see the article
Learning To Know God Through Our Pain)
The beauty of the above purposes is that God can combine several
within the same situation. The main emphasis for this brief article
is that suffering is never without purpose as stated so clearly
in the following verses: